These 30 embarrassing questions ask about mishaps people are happy to tell: being caught on mute, waving back at the wrong person, a haircut from a parent. Choose stories the teller can laugh about now, not a humiliation that still hurts.
Let the storyteller choose
Offer a small mishap of your own first if you want to. Nobody has to match it or reveal a secret. Don’t ask for a story about someone who isn’t in the room, and don’t demand a photo or someone’s messages as proof.
If the teller isn’t laughing, stop treating the story as a joke. Move to fun questions or another topic.
Family stories are different
The last group asks about stories families tell about each other, often for decades. These are best told by the person they happened to. A grandparent may enjoy hearing a grandchild ask “What did Dad do at your wedding?” but Dad gets a say in whether it becomes a family legend. Ask before you repeat a story outside the room, even if everyone laughed.
For more ways to get stories going at a gathering, see our family reunion story games.